In it but not Of it

This is a continuation of my previous post "I am the Best"

"To be in it but not of it". That statement always did make sense to me, but it's only now that I'm realizing or learning what it means on a practical level. To be in something but not of it.

To be 'in' a certain 'programming', like a 'relationship' for example. Because yes, relationships are a 'program' of this world and of the mind. So whatever relationship you're 'in' sort of reflects the 'programming' that you've accepted and allowed within and as you. And it'll show you EXACTLY what you've accepted and allowed.

So, even though it often won't be 'pleasant', you have to sort of 'accept' that 'Ok, this is me'. Stop fighting it. Stop expecting things to be 'different' or 'better'. Stop thinking you 'should get better' lol. Cause you're getting exactly what you 'deserve'. Well, not really 'deserve', but more like you're being 'served' exactly what you 'decided', or 'agreed to', or 'allowed', throughout your years of living a preprogrammed existence. So, just sort of find the 'core' of the programming and stand one and equal with that.

What is this relationship showing you, in terms of 'how' it's existing? And, have you actually really taken responsibility for the totality of it? Have you really faced the thing you've become that has created this relationship the way that it is? I mean, find the words to describe the relationship and the 'dynamics' that are playing out, and you'll find the programming you're still living and haven't taken responsibility for.

And if you're finding that there's 'conflict' in you with regards to how it's existing, then just give up the battle. Just be like "Ok, this is me". And sort of, 'play the game', the way you've designed it. Play the role you've created for yourself, and 'accept' the game as it is. Get to the place where there's no more blame, cause it's all only what you've accepted and allowed. All arrows point to you. To me that's what it means to be 'in' it, but not 'of' it.